Where Have All the Cowboys Gone?

I feel like everywhere I turn, the IF blogging world is filled with pregnant women. I know, intellectually, it's not true...but I can't seem to find the women of my generation (as it were). Julie, Getupgrrl, Persephone, Cecily - these are among the women I followed over the past year or more, when I was taking my first few steps toward starting to try to maybe have a baby. All of them - pregnant or mothers now. I click on random links from Julie's famous List-o-Blogs, and it seems like everyone is either pregnant or adopting. There's almost no one just starting out. No one like me.

I know it's not true. I know that Wessel, among others, still has her battle to fight. But even those women...they're old hat at this. They know what they're doing. Maybe I just never click over to the right places, but what I'm looking for now is someone like me, someone else who's new to this game, who is just starting treatment, who has no idea whether a baby is ten months away or ten years, who doesn't know whether the child will come through IUI or IVF or surrogacy or international adoption or only in her dreams. I know these women are out there, and their blogs must be out there too, but WHERE?